Italian women

I read sometime ago in the news how the soon to be ex-wife of the Italian Prime Minister, in response to his repeated public affairs and general drama, has started a trend of Italian women walking around wearing t-shirts that say "I am not a woman who is at your disposal". I instantly fell in love with her.
Imagine being able to live your life self-contained and at your own disposal-not making yourself available to a man unless at your own convenience and pleasure. It sounds like such a lovely liberated way to live. I think she may be on to something.
(This being said while I plan to cook dinner for my man's parents while he enjoys away the day watching soccer at a pub with his buddies. My man who doesn't want to marry me because he's not sure about whether he will be satisfied with me over the lonmg term). I need to get my ass tp freakin Italy.