Ooohhh the blustery-ness of it all. The day, my emotions, the coming of Spring. The recognizing and placing of boundaries always a big deal, at the beginning when it is new to you and you are still getting sucked in to someone else's ways and emotions but keep your eyes on the horizon knowing that one day it will not be so dramatic to stand in one's truth. You will be softer and less flinty-eyed about it. One hopes. But for now, in the beginning it's all Al Pacino-You Lookin At Me?-and the bravado of the not-so-sure that has to carry me as I stand at the gates of what is okay and what is not. And then, in secret, pride and the peace of knowing my own dignity and the horizon gets closer.